Ladies, I’d love you to read this with an open mind. I will tread carefully on this forbidden ground of topic lest I’m crucified like Njoki.
I can’t speak for men because clearly I’m not one. However, it’s important to understand that a spouse is a simple reflection of a part of you or you as a whole.
The factors I’m about to list down are applicable to the female spouse; be it girlfriend or wife. I haven’t mentioned chipsfunga with reason.