It is official, we only have a few days before Valentines’ day and the anxiety and levels of expectations from the ladies is almost at boiling point. With the trending hash tag #ValentinesIsCompleteIf, here are some of the ways guys can make sure that their valentines’ goes as good as it is being planned.
Stay away from the following sentences on your usual texting with your partners.
- LET ME TEXT YOU BACK.
This is something no girl wants to hear when she brings up any conversation related to valentines. It simply gives her the idea that you had not made any plans for the both of you or if you had then you are trying to dodge her on that day. If you don’t have an answer to any matters valentines’ on valentines’ eve, find a way to change the topic but don’t say you’ll text her back and you know you won’t.
- WHEN DID YOU SAY YOUR BIRTHDAY WAS
This will automatically communicate that you have not bought anything for her yet and you intend to make it up to her come her birth day. It is important to communicate your financial position earlier enough so that you do not get her expectations for a gift or a night at a fancy place too high. The truth does hurt but with time it surely hurts less.
- VALENTINES’ IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL
This is like committing relationship suicide. No lady wants to hear this. Guys should understand that their women interact with different women who might be bragging about how their men respond to valentines’ and hence they carry the same idea that you as their man would also do the same for them. If you don’t believe in celebrating on valentines’ day, keep it to yourself, anyone would tell you that for a relationship to work, a lot of compromise is involved.
- LET ME CONSULT MY BOYS.
Every guy should know that their women don’t necessarily trust the guys their men hang out with and hence she will have to cross her fingers once you tell her that you want to consult your boys on matters valentines. Because in case your valentines’ goes wrong, then she will forever blame you for consulting sources she doesn’t trust. If you want your relationship to be happy and last longer, keep your boys out of it.
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